[jthig32]

There's always something you can do to make yourself safer and more likely to avoid some sort of assault or injury. That's a given.

But if someone commits a criminal act of assault against me or someone I love, I don't need someone telling me what we should do differently to avoid that next time. You might even be right. But there's just no reason for you to be focusing on my actions or the actions of my loved one. Focus on the actions of the person that committed the crime.